My daughter has been engaged for two years. She did not want to marry until she could pay off her college loans for veterinary school and begin saving. She has scrimped and saved all this time, being very responsible about it. Then the costs went up on everything. I'm retired and simply cannot afford to help her out much. She had a spartan wedding planned, but the additional costs are still overwhelming her. I would love to help her just enough to push her into the black for her wedding.